How to get your ex girlfriend back? Let’s start with the basics. A short posting like this can’t go into all of the details, but let’s start with some of the key ingredients. So check out the list below:

Stop Criticizing – You’re not going to make any friends with this approach, much less win back the one you love.

Stop Arguing and Agree – Stop trying to always be right. Do you want to be right? Or do you want your girlfriend back?

Stop Calling – Let her call you. If you focus on getting your act together and not on trying to change her, she will notice. This takes “patience”, so quit trying to fix it right now and allow some time to pass.

Stop Telling Her You Love Her – The more you say it the more she feels you’re being needy and manipulative.

Stop Trying to Control Her – Control is an illusion anyway, she’s a big girl and is going to do what she wants. Instead of trying to forcibly control her, let her be – with that freedom you’ll find she’ll want to respect your wishes more anyway.

Bribe Her – That’s right, an all out bribe. This only works in the right situation and not in the heat of the moment. But sometimes just giving in and doing or buying something that she has always wanted shows her that you are truly hearing what she has said in the past and are willing to change. Be careful on this one, because timing is everything.

So, that’s it for now – a quick list of some great tips on how to get your ex girlfriend back. Just remember, as you look over this list, it has more to do with you than with her. Your actions and your attitudes have to change. As you do this, your silent influence on her will also change.